My husbands 8 year old niece came over a few weeks ago for a sleepover, and her and my daughter were in the room watching Tv. When I went to check on them I saw them quickly come out from under neath the covers. I was concerned and asked my daughter to come sleep with me, (And my daughter happens to be 4. When I asked her what they were going, she cried and said she was scared to tell me, so I told her we would talk in the morning. So the next day, I asked her again and after almost a hour, she told me that my niece asked her for a kiss. I immediately called my sister in law, and told her what was told to me. She kind of brushed it under the rug, and said she would talk to her about it and let me know. And in doing so, she told me she is always telling her when someone spends the night with her, she is to stay above the covers. (Does that mean it has happened before with her?)
So my daughter spent the night over their house last night, and in returned my niece stayed with us tonight. My daughter refused to sleep in the same room with her, which wasn't like her. So when asked what happened to make her feel like that, she told me that last night my niece asked her for another kiss. My daughter said she told her no. About 15 minutes later she told me that my niece pulled underwear down and kissed her private. I cried like a baby at that one !! I called her mother and fathers phone for them to come and get her and they did not answer. I checked my daughter for anything that seemed to look irritated and she looked fine. I don't know what to do!! I mean Im going to let her mother know first thing in the morning, but what do I do after that? She is 8, and family !!!