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How to get over a dark past?

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How to get over a dark past?

Postby oz » Wed Mar 07, 2012 7:31 pm

Ok, what I'm about to say is very personal and I understand people will judge me for it and I guess that's fine but I need some help and since you all don't know me I find it easier to open up as strange as that may sound.. So here goes.. When I was 16 I had abortion, it was the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with and I dealt with it alone as my boyfriend left me, the abortion went horribly wrong and I lost alot of blood so I had to have a blood transfusion, after a while I developed severe depression or as the doctor said PASS ( post abortion stress sydrom) but they soon discovered it was more than that.. I started cutting my arms, legs and anywhere else possible to get rod of the guilt but it neve took it away, soon after my dad had a serious injury and wa in a coma which triggered even more depression.. I hated myself so much that wanted o do anything to put myself in harms way.. I started to work as an escort and I done so for a few months, it made me sick but I liked knowing that I was suffering, I thought it was what I deserved at the least.. I have never told anyone this to this extent.. I am alot better now but I still have all these terrible feelings about my past that I can't overcome, I feel so bad about it all that it makes me physically sick sometimes, how do you get over something like that?
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How to get over a dark past?

Postby matyas » Wed Mar 07, 2012 7:43 pm

What is your goal in life? What have you always wanted to do? find a purpose in life and go for it, don't let this past stop you from getting what you want in life, get a real job! Get married and have a family, we only learn from our mistakes, you can teach your kids in the future to not to do the same thing. go look at a water fall, or a river, or some place with moving water, it shows that time is always going by and each moment is always new just like the water keeps coming is new, don't let anything stop you from living life. Have fun, but don't party or drink or start doing bad things, buy a new outfit today, trust me you WILL get through this.
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How to get over a dark past?

Postby motega » Wed Mar 07, 2012 7:45 pm

First of all this is a little f'd up to be sharing on yahoo answers but I also admire your courage. You have to realize that that was only part of your life and now it's gone, you have the rest of your life to live, the only person stopping you from living it is you, don't let the past be in your future!
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How to get over a dark past?

Postby teyo » Wed Mar 07, 2012 7:51 pm

you need a therapist,
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