Ive asked this before but no one seems to actually read my entire question because the advice is about what I said is NOT happening. Anyway, here goes.
My husbands ex wife has been i guess bullying harrassing or whatever for three years. The entire time him and I have been together (3yrs). Their relationship ended badly, he got into trouble was in jail (she also isnt a good seed) and while he was in jail for the few months she moved in with a friend of his and they got pregnant. He cleaned up, and tried to move on but she wouldnt let him, calling, begging, writing. But she hates that him and I are together. I have said some mean things the first half of the 3 years, then i learned to stop. Anyway, i shouldnt have said anything, or have been mean about it but my husbands had to change his number three times do to her getting ahold of it, texting rude crude stuff all hoirs of day and night, calling. I had to shut my home phone off because she kept calling amd hanging up. I blocked her from social media sites because she was sending messages, which i wish I had saved but I was also stupid enough to reply to, Ill admit. I deleted my myspace account, blocking doesnt do much there. Otherwise she put up status messages using my full name saying im a b word, im psycho, i stalk her, i need mental help, i have stds. Sometimes shed not say my full name, sometimes say her exes new fling. Well shes been doing it on facebook, altho I have her blocked, I live in a small town, she has over 600 "friends" and i hear about her calling me same things and recently threatening me. Now, ive saved everything via screen shots for all three years except the myspace messages just the updates. Anyway, i am high risk pregnancy right now, and I cannot deal with the stress or slander any longer. But i also dont know what legitimate bullying, harrassment is or what i can actually do? Shes sorta threatened once recently but not a viable threat, just "come say it to my face ******!"